Lean on the Side of Caution While you may feel ready to jump back into the dating scene as soon as you can, there are many reasons that you might want to take your time and at least wait until the divorce papers are signed sealed and delivered, so-to-speak.
Of course, one obvious reason is your own emotional well-being.
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While your dating habits will most likely not hurt you legally, it could lead to a much messier and longer divorce.
That means you will probably be facing a much more expensive divorce as well.
But much of this too is to avoid the complex array of losses and challenges divorce presents a man.
Many of these losses though, are a result men’s typical, if not default, role within marriage of being the financial provider.
by Larry O'Connor, MFT Men’s Challenges with Separation and Divorce “Women grieve the loss of a relationship before ending it, men grieve it after it has ended,” may say it best.
Statistically, 65-70% of divorces are filed by women (90% in college-educated couples).
The majority immediately scramble to salvage their marriages, citing family or finances, prepared to agree to anything to keep their world in tact.
Often this is in reaction to the shock, and not being prepared.
While many divorces are very difficult and emotionally draining there are some people who can't wait to be done with their marriage and move on.
For many people, getting divorced is the best thing that could happen to them given their circumstances.
I like how she brings it home to those points after discussions on the various topics.