But let's be fair: There's a reason we tend to date people who are closer in age.So, if something seems too good to be true (read: he or she is too hot for you by about eight years), it probably is.
But there are definitely certain things that happen when you’re dating someone younger that you might want to take into consideration.
Nothing is guaranteed obviously, and a relationship is more about compatibility than a birthday.
Data scientist Randy Olson was one of those curious individuals who set out to uncover and break down all of the marriage factors.
Previously he found money, engagement ring and wedding price, children, dating length prior to engagement, but part two of his data set reveals age is one of the biggest predictors of a lasting marriage. The closer a couple is in birth age, the greater the change their marriage will last.
But as long as you can be open about your issues with the relationship, it should all end happily ever after (maybe).
Some things to remember about seriously dating someone younger than you.
We worked in the same profession, had similar interests, and shared common philosophical views. So what if he was wrinkly, in all the places you might expect? There was zero jealousy on both sides, and I never saw him check out another woman -- due to him being satisfied, of course, but also him being well-seasoned in how to respect the opposite sex. Another lesson in dating: a fling with someone in your professional/personal circle is more often than not bad news. I have a friend who’s been married to someone for more than a decade who is 20 years older than her.
I grew up the only child of older parents (who are also 10 years apart), and often felt like an awkward old lady trapped inside a teeny-bopper’s body. I admit, I wasn’t as physically attracted to him as I had been to other partners. Have you ever seen a girl with a hideous boyfriend and thought, “Seriously, how the f$*k did he pull that off? Either he's just a nice friggin’ dude; or being with him boosts her self-confidence. In my case, the age gap was actually a cavernous black hole defying space and time. He’s old and sick now, and she takes care of him (even financially), but she’s still partying and sleeping around. I sometimes imagine what would have happened if I had stayed with my older man.
But the heart wants what the heart wants, and at some point in your life, you might find yourself with a partner who is significantly older or younger than you.
Don’t listen to what anyone says about the age difference between you and your partner (as long as it’s legal, obviously).
If that's not an easy conversation opener, I truly don't know what is.)But after all sorts of successes and failures with women, as time has gone on, I've found at least common failure: a massive age gap.