I love Minted's "Love Flowchart" Save the Dates! Triple word score Scrabble STDs from Tribe member Pencil Witch.
That's why I'm all about these nerdy Save the Dates, the perfect way to say "this event is going to be nerdier than a pair of XKCD ten-sided die." Seriously, we've got save-the-dates for book worms, sci-fi nerds, gamer geeks, comic book nerds, etc. Control Save the date with these computer key board Save the Dates from a master of nerdy wedding invites Dynamic Weddings. (From Tribe member only1genevieve.) Okay, so these are invitations, but I'm including them anyway.
Plus the little heart-shaped controller buttons make me happy.
I was totally hipped to these vintage comic book style STDs via Neatorama.
They're made by Etsy shop Team Welser and they're pretty incredible.
My het male partner/Dom basically wants us to be defacto monogamous unless we find a female partner who likes us both (I am mainly attracted to women, and butch ones. Part of the problem is that my partner is really insecure and has a hard time seeing me even flirt with other women (well, butches. He keeps saying that we can really give this non-monogamy a go after this thing happens or after he works out his issue with x. I do have to add that part of my problem is that I am not sure if I want to be with a man at all. Let me fully admit that my own Adventures in Open-er Relationships have been shitty, half-baked compromises where I tried to reconcile how I “should feel, in theory, because I am not a jealous person/spend a lot of time wishing I were French/look how cool and Not Jealous I am!
I am feeling really stir crazy at this circling the non-monogamous airport. I really love this man, he makes me laugh and cares for me in so many ways. /am really afraid of losing you” with my actual feelings and needs.
Because…you beautiful poly people, I totally love your fierce loyalty and utopian desire to see the good in everyone and make things work and communicate and set boundaries and find ways to joyfully connect in an imperfect mixed-up world…those of you in my small, self-selecting sample of poly Letter Writers* are TERRIBLE at breaking up with people when it’s not working because even more than most you need to find some logical, watertight reason.
Otherwise, it’s “But he’s really a lovely person who means well, surely we can make this work out at some level, and I can get x and y needs met by somebody else if I need to.
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