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These are the kind of men that — like it or not — remind me of my dad.

Dedicated, kind, big-hearted family men who may not have all the words, but who do have all the feelings.

Tinder uses your existing social networking data from Facebook to locate people in the immediate vicinity, tell you a bit about them, whether you have any friends in common and (most importantly) show you a pic.

It has slimmed down the emotional, cognitive and financial investment required by the virtual dating process to one simple question: “Do I want to do you?

Recently, the inimitable Captain Awkward provided advice to a gentleman who was flirted with somewhat avidly but didn’t end up having sex with the lady in question, and feels somewhat wrong about all of this. ”Yeah, nothing is wrong with you if you don’t want to have sex with someone even if they maybe want to have sex with you. You’ll notice that none of those reasons are “they are terrible, ugly people.” That’s because none of the people I have met who are incredibly unsuccessful at dating are terrible, ugly people. A final note: whenever I find people incessantly complaining about how little sex they’re having, my first impulse is to say “I can correct that problem!

I’d just like to signal-boost this bit right here: Young heterosexual dudes are up for sex all the time, and if a hot girl even smiles at them they are ready, willing, and able. When you are young and not-so-experienced, it’s easy for every encounter or possible encounter to feel like a referendum on Masculinity or Prowess or Who You Are And Will Be Forever. In fact, some of them are the kindest, smartest, most interesting, and prettiest people I’ve met. And if you have an opportunity for casual sex and you turn it down, because you don’t like casual sex or you weren’t really attracted to that lady or you just didn’t want to, it is time to REVOKE ALL THE MAN CARDS FOREVER. And if you’re not ready for sex, or still not over your ex, or only desirous of sex in intimate relationships, or whatever, it is perfectly okay to say no. ” I wish that were generally considered a polite reaction…

Related: The #1 Thing Men Do On A First Date That Immediately Turns Women OFF While I probably will not ask any of these guys out (because most of them live in rural New Jersey and I'm a Brooklyn girl), viewing their profiles really helped me remember the qualities I truly want in a mate.

Integrity, kindness, a desire to provide for a family he loves, and most of all, a healthy need for emotional intimacy.

I’m going through a bit of semi-voluntary celibacy at the moment, and it’s getting so I want to fuck vegetables and/or inappropriate people and/or inappropriate vegetables. There are lots of reasons why people don’t get laid much.

It is your mind telling you things that are probably not true.

Some of them approach asking for empathy and an open dialogue about how daunting and discouraging it can be for men to try to get some action, others approach with vitriol, spitting insults and misogyny and an ugly sense of sexual entitlement. I like sex, I wish I had more sex, I’m not opposed to casual sex, so what’s stopping me?

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